I’m pregnant—help me decide

Your situation deserves to be heard before you decide.

A gentle, private conversation to notice safety, pressure, practical barriers and the feelings underneath. It will not score you or make a decision for you.

○ No account required • Answers stay on this screen

Our perspective—stated plainly

We are life-affirming, not value-neutral.

Held With Hope believes women and developing life have dignity. We hope every woman can give continuing her pregnancy a real, supported chance—not because fear is used against her, but because fear is met with truthful information and practical care.

We will not shame you, disguise persuasion as clinical advice, or tell you that a quiz can decide. Your medical decisions remain yours.

01Full guided form

I’m pregnant—help me decide

Explore safety, pressure, accurate options, practical barriers, values and support.

You are here

Decision Companion

Eight questions. No score. One clearer next step.

This takes about five minutes. Nothing is sent, stored or added to an account. You may stop at any time, use Quick exit, or go directly to practical or professional support.

  • Start with immediate safety and medical care
  • Check whether pressure is affecting your freedom
  • Notice which option or fact is still unclear
  • Bring evidence together with your values and circumstances
  • Leave with questions and actions shaped by your answers

Orient yourself

Three broad paths deserve accurate information.

This is a starting map, not a complete comparison or a recommendation. A qualified clinician and relevant service should explain what applies to your health, gestation and state or territory.

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Continue and parent

Explore antenatal care, health considerations, partner or family support, housing, income, childcare, study and work. Ask what practical help is confirmed—not only promised.

Build a realistic support plan →
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Continue and consider adoption or other care

Learn about adoption, foster care, permanent care and kinship care from an appropriate Australian service. Ask about consent, legal steps, contact arrangements and emotional support.

Read the Australian options overview ↗
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Abortion

Ask a qualified provider about available methods, timing, what to expect, pain relief, possible complications, follow-up, costs and what symptoms need urgent care.

Read the clinical overview →

A human next step

Know the perspective of the service you call.

These organisations informed the listening and practical-support flow. We label their perspective so you can choose knowingly.

Life-affirming • Australia

Diamond Women

Free support that describes itself as judgement-free, including counselling, mentoring and practical pregnancy or parenting support.

Visit Diamond Women ↗Call 1300 851 592
Life-affirming • Australia

Pregnancy Help Australia

A non-clinical pregnancy-support helpline and centre directory. It does not provide or refer for abortion and is open 8 am–10 pm AEST.

Find a centre ↗Call 1300 139 313
Government health information

Healthdirect Australia

Clinical information and 24/7 nurse advice. Its decision guidance says no one can force you to have an abortion or continue a pregnancy.

Read decision guidance ↗Call 1800 022 222

How this guide was shaped

Shared decision-making, safety and practical care.

The flow adapts the four-part structure of the Ottawa Personal Decision Guide: clarify the decision, explore options, consider other people’s views and identify next steps. It also uses the Australian Ask Share Know questions and Pregnancy, Birth and Baby’s shared decision-making guidance.

Pregnancy options and medical language are checked against Pregnancy, Birth and Baby, Healthdirect and the RANZCOG decision aid. Pressure and safety prompts reflect 1800RESPECT’s reproductive-abuse guidance. We do not repeat unsupported medical claims, hide our values, or present a life-affirming service as neutral clinical counselling.

Free pregnancy support · Australia-wide

Pregnancy Help Australia

A life-affirming, non-clinical helpline and directory that can connect you with participating pregnancy-support centres around Australia. Support is described as free and confidential.

Call 1300 139 313Text 0483 952 605Helpline: 8 am–10 pm AEST, 7 days · text only on the mobile number
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Ask about practical help

Participating centres may offer essential baby items, help with forms, parenting preparation, mentoring and links to financial, housing or safety services.

See their free-support overview ↗
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Know the boundary

The helpline is not medical, legal or emergency care and does not provide or refer for abortion. Ask a qualified clinician for medical advice and confirm services directly with the hub.

This guide is not a clinical, legal, counselling or emergency service.

Medical timing can matter. A reflective exercise should never delay urgent care, prescribed follow-up or a conversation with a qualified clinician.