I’m pregnant—help me decide
Explore safety, pressure, accurate options, practical barriers, values and support.
You are hereI’m pregnant—help me decide
A gentle, private conversation to notice safety, pressure, practical barriers and the feelings underneath. It will not score you or make a decision for you.
Our perspective—stated plainly
Held With Hope believes women and developing life have dignity. We hope every woman can give continuing her pregnancy a real, supported chance—not because fear is used against her, but because fear is met with truthful information and practical care.
We will not shame you, disguise persuasion as clinical advice, or tell you that a quiz can decide. Your medical decisions remain yours.
Explore safety, pressure, accurate options, practical barriers, values and support.
You are hereDecision Companion
This takes about five minutes. Nothing is sent, stored or added to an account. You may stop at any time, use Quick exit, or go directly to practical or professional support.
Orient yourself
This is a starting map, not a complete comparison or a recommendation. A qualified clinician and relevant service should explain what applies to your health, gestation and state or territory.
Explore antenatal care, health considerations, partner or family support, housing, income, childcare, study and work. Ask what practical help is confirmed—not only promised.
Build a realistic support plan →Learn about adoption, foster care, permanent care and kinship care from an appropriate Australian service. Ask about consent, legal steps, contact arrangements and emotional support.
Read the Australian options overview ↗Ask a qualified provider about available methods, timing, what to expect, pain relief, possible complications, follow-up, costs and what symptoms need urgent care.
Read the clinical overview →A human next step
These organisations informed the listening and practical-support flow. We label their perspective so you can choose knowingly.
Free support that describes itself as judgement-free, including counselling, mentoring and practical pregnancy or parenting support.
Visit Diamond Women ↗Call 1300 851 592A non-clinical pregnancy-support helpline and centre directory. It does not provide or refer for abortion and is open 8 am–10 pm AEST.
Find a centre ↗Call 1300 139 313Clinical information and 24/7 nurse advice. Its decision guidance says no one can force you to have an abortion or continue a pregnancy.
Read decision guidance ↗Call 1800 022 222How this guide was shaped
The flow adapts the four-part structure of the Ottawa Personal Decision Guide: clarify the decision, explore options, consider other people’s views and identify next steps. It also uses the Australian Ask Share Know questions and Pregnancy, Birth and Baby’s shared decision-making guidance.
Pregnancy options and medical language are checked against Pregnancy, Birth and Baby, Healthdirect and the RANZCOG decision aid. Pressure and safety prompts reflect 1800RESPECT’s reproductive-abuse guidance. We do not repeat unsupported medical claims, hide our values, or present a life-affirming service as neutral clinical counselling.
Free pregnancy support · Australia-wide
A life-affirming, non-clinical helpline and directory that can connect you with participating pregnancy-support centres around Australia. Support is described as free and confidential.
Browse affiliated centres by state or territory and check what each location currently provides.
Explore the Hubs of Love network ↗Participating centres may offer essential baby items, help with forms, parenting preparation, mentoring and links to financial, housing or safety services.
See their free-support overview ↗The helpline is not medical, legal or emergency care and does not provide or refer for abortion. Ask a qualified clinician for medical advice and confirm services directly with the hub.
Medical timing can matter. A reflective exercise should never delay urgent care, prescribed follow-up or a conversation with a qualified clinician.